Alright chaps, I'm a 30-year old single guy and I can't help but feel that the majority of women in my age group at our Church aren't Christian at all. They don't exhibit the fruit of the Spirit, which should be the hallmark of a true believer.
Too many times, I've been ignored, even openly sneered at, as these so-called Christian women huddle in their snooty cliques, gossiping about anyone not in their circle. This isn't the Church I read about in the Bible , where believers are supposed to love each other, build each other up, and not judge anyone.
Anyone else had this?!
The "Christian" Women at Church: Are they really Christian?
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Re: The "Christian" Women at Church: Are they really Christian?
Man, I feel you! It's even worse when these women lead you on, making you think they are single when they're clearly not. I've been a victim of this and it's very hurtful.
The flirting, the confidence boost they seek from us while their "partners" couldn't care less about church. And when you start developing feelings, they drop the bombshell - "I'm seeing someone." It's devastating and shakes your faith, honestly.
The flirting, the confidence boost they seek from us while their "partners" couldn't care less about church. And when you start developing feelings, they drop the bombshell - "I'm seeing someone." It's devastating and shakes your faith, honestly.
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This behaviour goes against the biblical teaching of not arousing or awakening love until it so desires (Song of Solomon 2:7). Playing with people's feelings ain't Christian at all.
It also goes against the teaching of not being yoked together with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). It's toxic and harms the church.
It also goes against the teaching of not being yoked together with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). It's toxic and harms the church.
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Ugh! It's downright sad and pathetic when women treat guys at church like this. They think they are looking good and wanted by flirting with every guy, but it really just shows desperation for attention.
In the end, it's a lose-lose situation. It harms the church and makes these women look like they're playing games. It's time we prayed for a change in our church culture, for true believers who walk the talk.
In the end, it's a lose-lose situation. It harms the church and makes these women look like they're playing games. It's time we prayed for a change in our church culture, for true believers who walk the talk.